For myself and I’m sure for many of you as well, Michael and Kyle Sweet seemed to have merged into one during their many years together. It’s hard to explain really, but simply put, Kyle was always there and was always very involved. From much of the early Stryper era and right into the recent present, she had always been there as such a huge part of Michael’s career. I would guess that’s the reason why I can hear her name just as loudly when I hear the name Michael Sweet. After reading his beautifully written letters to Kyle during her final days with us, we learned what an unconditional support she had been through all of his past and present accomplishments and endeavors. What an awesome woman and inspiration she was to us all.

As Michael poured out his heart in those writings to Kyle, sharing details of their life and love for each other, it inspired me to take a moment and echo the voices of many by saying a belated “thank you” to her. There are a lot of “what if’s” that could have occurred during many points of her life. What if Kyle had not felt the need or perhaps had a lesser desire to be supportive of Michael? What if she would have rather had him home with his family, not out touring? What if Kyle had felt that enough is enough after great success? What if.... What if.... I could go on and on, there are many scenarios that could have played out. Admit it, we’re all addicted to the music that Michael has created for so long. Perhaps without Kyle, our sweet addiction (no pun intended) might have never continued through all of the years that it has. Here’s another thought: as a result of her unselfishness, she has without a doubt contributed to the millions of people around the world, who have experienced Christ in a variety of ways through Michael’s music. I am one of those people. Because of Kyle, my life will never be the same and I am eternally grateful. My heart is still saddened, even as I write this, but I know that she fulfilled an awesome assignment. God put a beautiful woman on this earth for such a perfect purpose.

As I wrap this up, I reflect on a memory of Kyle. I can remember my wife and I being with her at a show in Boston during the Reborn tour. When Michael and the boys hit the stage, I could see an immediate glow come over her. The excitement and energy that she possessed that night was no less than any other in the building. She was rockin’ out with the rest of the crowd, while expressing an obvious pride for her husband. That night I realized that no matter how many old Stryper vinyl records we might own, or how many times we’ve seen Michael live, and regardless of how much yellow and black clothing we’ve collected, we will never be Michael’s number one fan. That title belonged to Kyle, she was and is his number one fan.

At a time like this, it’s almost impossible to find all of the right words to say, nothing seems quite good enough. Sometimes words just don’t speak what your heart is saying. I ask that everyone who has taken the time to read this to please make a simple commitment and continue praying for Michael and the family. There is a void in their hearts that will without a doubt bring heartache and challenges for some time, but Christ alone will walk them through. There is such power in prayer, beyond what we as humans can even comprehend. God has a purpose and a plan for us all and sometimes it’s difficult to understand why some face such unimaginable trials. But He is God and He is in control and we must never loose our faith. One day we will all see the big picture of this life.

Thank you all for reading what I write and for being such a great support to Michael Sweet. His love and appreciation goes out to every one of you!

~Matt J